"You cannot hurry time".
One of life's solid truths which is something I have always struggled with. Immediate results, instant gratification, seeing the rewards of our fruits. However without time for this fruit to grow, they would never ripen. Allowing things to take their natural course has often left me frustrated, angry, unfulfilled. I am always impatiently waiting for what I know I want yet do I? If it is meant to be it will materialize for me. Even perhaps if I have to then search for it as I have moved on, if it is right for me, I will find it again.
Life moves in circles. It takes a course which sometimes might seem so far off the destination that you desire but at the end of the day it takes you there all the same. They say "it is the journey not the destination" yet often I feel that I obsess about what I want to have I forget to enjoy obtaining it and the path which I need to take.
"So Ham" has become my mantra. "Let go". Although I find this hard I know that each and every time I practice this mantra my life seems to get a little less complicated. We have a tendency to hold on to everything, even if it doesn't serve our happiness. Ultimately we need to be happy. It's as simple as that.